Wednesday, August 21, 2013


Thank God for today. It's a beautiful day. As I lay in bed with my little lady love bugs watching the Fresh Beat Band on this wonderful Sunday afternoon. I start wondering off in my mind about what's really important in life. 

My baby loves me and only cares for my time and attention. As I run around like a headless chicken chasing my success and dreams , busy hustling for the finner things for my baby and I, sometimes I can slack on the attention she needs or I need. She's still sees life for what's important love, being happy, and enjoying herself. 

I need to remember these things when I'm spending hours away from home making way less than what I'm giving up and that's quality time with my baby. So I'm becoming more organized with time and spend the most I can with her and remembering to live in the moment. 

I was rushing and rushing my baby out the door. She's snatched her hand from mine and walked over to a flower "I love flowers" stopped and smelled the flower. 

"Stop and smell the roses" 

I work hard to get my baby nice things but all she really wants is my love and to be loved.

This is my baby teaching mommy a thing or too. Stop rushing stop thinking so much,live in the now and stop to smell a flower or two lol.


Where do you find the time? Or better yet, a guy that's worth the time. I figure if I leave my baby for "dating" purposes it would have to be damn good reason. Someone I see or can see a future with, or someone fun and entertaining. Whatever I choose has to be an intelligent gentlemen or its just a waste of time. Instead of me entertaining a waste of time I could be home folding clothes or tickling my baby. There no room for dead weight over here. 

Ladies, if you are a single mother your best bet is to love you and your baby so much you forget your single. Then maybe the right guy will live your love for yourself a s baby that he will want to love you guys too. Whatever you do, just don't date to date. Give your dating meaning. Either to meet new great inspiring people or to learn new things about yourself. Don't be so drunk with loneliness that you settle for the first thing waving hello. 

Married women. I can't speak from experience but I can speak from common sense. It's important to keep yourself sexy and seductive to your mate. Don't use your work load and home life as an excuse to slack off on your grooming, cut your workload short before cutting yourself short. Have your husband help with the workload and if need be remind him keeping the relationship interesting isn't only in your job description but in his as well. 

Keep yourself soothed and groomed 💋